Biggest Mistakes to Avoid on Mother’s Day!

Posted by SwordsSwords on May 8th 2020

There are only two days left till Mother’s Day 2020 and we are super inspired. Mothers have always been the backbone of our family and societal structures. It is the one day where we have the opportunity to thank them for all that they do. Social distancing and unavailability of the usual mother’s day gifts have added extra difficulty in making mothers happy. However, there are multiple options in different categories to make your mum the happiest and the proudest mother in the world. You can peruse some of our favorite options on our blog. However, among the plethora of advice on how to make this day perfect, we often forget what to avoid on this special day. Mother’s day is a wholesome occasion but you need to be careful about several nuances. We have compiled a comprehensive list of what not to do this Sunday. We hope you spend a fulfilling and rewarding Mother’s Day!

Don’t Be Overconfident!

Love makes us all do silly things. We often overestimate our own prowess for our loved ones. This Mother’s Day, be candid and rethink your plans. If you don’t know how to cook or bake, plan a home delivery or a restaurant takeout dinner to avoid any mishaps. Don’t cook or bake delicate cuisines under pressure. Concentrate on your mom’s wishes and happiness. Be sure that she will love you no matter how elaborate your plans are. Go easy on yourself and make sure you enjoy the day along with your mum.

Don’t Disregard Her Dietary Choices and Restrictions

Cooking for mothers is an exceptional gift. In many cultures, food and related culinary arts are a family tradition passed on from mother to child. The family recipes are sacred, and many children like to recreate these magical dishes on special occasions. However, you must keep in mind the allergies and restrictions your mother might be facing nowadays. Many health problems also arise due to reckless eating during the holidays. Additionally, many moms like to diet and rebuild their figure around the summer season. Be considerate of her routine and requirements. Customize your plans to suit her needs or prepare something light and healthy.

Don’t Experiment

Cooking, cleaning, giving presents, and planning activities is usually the norm for this day. However, we advise that you must not experiment with any of the abovementioned activities if you haven’t experienced them before. We don’t mean to discourage you from doing something nice for your mum. But if you partake in any new cooking or cleaning endeavors, it might end up in disaster. At best, it will be a hilarious family anecdote at your expense. At worst, someone might end up in the emergency room. You should not play around with cleaning chemicals and sharp utensils, especially on Mother’s Day. Practice any surprise activity before you enact it on the event. Make sure to bring your own ingredients and supplies for your present as well.

Don’t Over-Plan

If you aren’t an only child, chances are that your siblings are planning on doing something this Mother’s Day as well. Collaborate with them to get a nicer present or arrange a family-wide fun activity. Don’t plan the whole day around yourself. If the whole day revolves around your individual plans, then your sibling might feel overshadowed. Be considerate this Mother’s Day and let your mom enjoy all her familial love. Additionally, don’t tire your mom out by planning vigorous activities or movie marathons. She works the entire day and deserves some time to relax. We know you love your mum to bits, but she might need a break from you as well. Give her time to take a breather and take over her responsibilities for a day.

Don’t Forget the Actual Mother’s Day Gift

E-cards and virtual wishes are precious indeed. But your mom might be looking forward to an actual mother's day gift. Physical gifts hold much more worth than virtual gifts as they express the sentiments from one’s heart. Even if your mom insists she doesn’t need a present, she will love a tangible token of your affections. Your gift doesn’t have to be the most elaborate product to be meaningful. It can be of any size and you can even craft it yourself. Be sure to add this tiny memento to your virtual presence.

Don’t Re-gift

Yes, your mum can totally spot the signs of obvious re-gifting. Don’t let the last-minute panicking lead you into a debacle. If you haven’t arranged a gift by now, just tell your mom it might take some time. Don’t give her a thoughtless, hand-me-down gift to get the ceremony over with. Be truthful and considerate to your mum. However, if you have a product that is perfect for your mom and you have never used it, then there is no harm in re-gifting it. Just make sure that the price tags are off. Wrap the gift immaculately and attach a lovely Mother’s Day card. Your mom will be none-the-wiser and she will love it immensely.